Football and Domestic Violence

I was surprised to hear that the former outweighs the latter.

Truth be told I know nothing of what occurred during the murder of Kassandra Perkins. Other than that she was shot repeatedly. Which doesn't sound accidental.

But to somehow say the "violence" of football may have had an influence? Violence?? It is not a violent sport. It is a sport, with very specific rules of what can and can not be done and why. And they wear padding for goodness' sakes!

If we expect any bias in athletes it should be a better understanding rules and boundaries.

If you truly believe football caused this murder then you also believe football should be outlawed. And all footballers should be jailed a priori. And you're not smart.

Birthday's are fun

For the record: I still was up at 8 this morning and I did make it to my marketing seminar this (Saturday) morning.

For Giuseppe's birthday he received, from me, a surprise dinner at the Olive Garden, so he can finally have some authentic Italian food, and an evening at the Korean Karaoke bar. And a day at the zoo today.

Coffee Shops

Are like libraries nowadays. I like it. I was in a Caribou the other day and found myself speaking at a whisper, so as not to disturb everyone else there working.

Speaking of Caribou Coffee: at the shop at Piedmont and 10th there is a barista named Titus. Who knows whence his name derives of his name. His a nice guy too.

The Greatest Threat to Democracy

A little late - from DumbAgent.com

The Greatest Threat to Democracy

Ocean on November 20, 2012 — Leave a Comment [edit]

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What is it? The uninformed electorate? As we’ve mentioned in our article on California voters, this certainly bears a negative impact. An uneducated citizenry? This is what Thomas Jefferson thought, and education certainly is a silver bullet for much, if not most, of what ails us. The biggest threat, specifically to democracy, however, is neither of those.

It is hysterical parents.

At this moment more than 1% of all American adults are in Jail. This is a rate more than twice as high as the South Africans, more than three times as high as the Iranians, more than six times as many as the Chinese. In fact, no society ever in history has imprisonedmore of its citizens. I’ll repeat that just for blogging effect: No society EVER in HISTORY has imprisoned more of its citizens than the United States is doing right now.

So why is America doing this? Are Americans inherently more violent than any other society ever in history? Or might the laws be a tad draconian? We have laws such as the three strike rule, wherein, if you are convicted of two crimes, the third, no matter how trivial, will result in life imprisonment. As an example Leandro Andrade is serving two consecutive life terms for shoplifting nine videotapes. Kevin Weber is serving 26 years forstealing 4 chocolate chip cookies. So: while 5% of the world is American, 25% of the world’s prisoners are American.

How does this tie into hysterical parents? Well, let us first mention some other overly-aggressive laws like the three strike rule, as well as mandatory minimums: there are the current laws against drugs and gambling, sex offense laws, the death penalty, etc.

The US spends close to $40 Billion each year for the war on drugs, while these drugs can still be bought more cheaply than ever in every city of the country. We’d be hard-pressed to find any metric calling that a success.

Gambling is another non-sensical part of the law. As it stands now (and this may change since writing), online gambling is illegal. Online betting is legal, as long as the bets are not on sports. Any bets on sports can of course be made in Las Vegas, Atlantic city, OTB venues and the Kentucky Derby. However, it is legal to have an online gambling company based in the United States, just as long as no money passes through US banks. No, there is no coherence there*.

Sex offender laws are a bit more controversial. However, there still is a difference between real sex offenders and college kids who urinated, flashed or streaked in public (which will get you sex offender registration for life in 32 states).

As for the death penalty, by comparing this map and this map, it is practically impossible to show that the death penalty has been any sort of deterrent to violent crimes.

Ok, great, so we have a laundry list of laws which make no sense. What do any of these have to do with parents, let alone hysterical ones? Well, let’s say these parents make up a huge part of the active electorate, and they want to keep their children safe from anything that may be called a threat, by any dubious standards, and to hell with all other consequences.

You may have heard the term “Helicopter parents”. Well, this is what we mean. Although, quite frankly, Ed Byrne puts this better than we can:

Ed Byrne on Parents

And in case you think we should not be allowed to comment because we do not have kids of our own, here is an example of someone who does:
Lenore Skenazy and Free Range Kids

* The UIGEA (Unlawful Internet Gambling Enforcement Act) was slipped into the 2006 SAFE port bill after it had been voted on by Congress and before it was signed by the president. The UIGEA was found to be unfair at the WTO but the US gave undisclosed concessions to the EU and Antigua to drop their demands. Freedom of information act filings to determine what those disclosures are, however, were denied due to national security.

Thoughts on Management

I'm reading Andrew Sorkin's Too Big To Fail (which is good). And two things come to mind. Although they are really two demonstrations of the same thing. Anyway:

Companies that are management driven are doomed to fail.

Or require rescuing.

It relates to the Peter Principle I suppose. You are great on the trading floor, sales desk, development team, whatever. You work your way up the ranks and end up in management. Your company is successful, it grows, management booms. All of a sudden it has been years since you have stepped in the mêlée of actual production, or any work closely associated with the product (or service) involved. 

Put briefly: you are detached from reality. 

The book is also a good reminder of the incompetence of Congress. 

Ok, I exaggerate for the sake effect. But the point is: no one person can have so much specialised knowledge as to make the decisions required of congress. The great scene where congress is being briefed by Paulson and Bernanke, to ultimately make a decision on TARP. *sigh*

Weekend Update

I tried to upload the video yesterday on location, but to no luck.

Anyway, another great Atlanta weekend including:

• Dinner date at Bricktops
• The most amazing carwash in the world
• Framing our first ever proper work of art
• New restaurant discovery H.Harper Station
• Jack & Coke slushies at Victory
• Highland Cigar Bar, one of my favourite Atlanta spots
• A walk on the Beltline

And did I mention the weather?!

Coupons!

Ocean has his post forwarded to me, so I get a lot of "welcome to the neighbourhood" post. Which includes a lot of coupons. Many many. So I decide to go through these (this was new to me).

And I realised: coupons are great! I actually went to to my grocery store and had to ask, at check out, how they worked. But I'm getting the hang of it.

I would like to now be a crazy coupon lady.

3 more chins and I can move in with Honey Boo Boo.